Can harass Passion Music Sex?

Could be, but there are various aspects that must be considered.

Is it true that the opinion which says certain types of music can arouse sexual desire? "Not likely. What needs to be seen precisely the quality of husband-wife relationship is concerned," said Monty P Satiadarma music therapist, MS / AT, MCP / MFCC, Psi. That is, detailed the Dean of the Faculty of Psychology, University Tarumanagara Jakarta, is the psychological closeness of their relationship. "It's more 'talking' than music as their presence was berintim-intimate."

The simplest example, Monty said, while chatting. "Chat baseball will connect if at the same time heard a loud stamping-tapping music right? Even though classical music out loud when set to yes so baseball hear each other." As a result, must be questioned, the goal would listen to music or communicate?

Music Without Poetry
Well, so did about the music that fits to berintim-intimate. If you want to be a musical accompaniment aka background music or music that became mere background, of course, his music selection should be quiet so as to give a relaxed, comfortable. "Can semiclassical, piano solo, jazz, romantic music as well. So, do not always have classical music."

Wherever possible, suggestions Monty, select instrumental music. The reason, "We're having communication. If in such times we hear music that verse, then there are two lines at once verbal captured by one's cognitive functions. First, he caught a sensory stimulus through the auditory sensory (auditory sensory) and then the continuation into the central nervous system. Well, here's a recycled inputs, among others, uses a system known as funelling or funnel. If the first point has not been signed, following the grain of sand can not enter into the funnel of having to stand in line. and so on. "

Well, you can imagine, the first grain is a grain of both music and poetry, while the next is the content of his conversation granules with a partner. "'s Complicated because it would clash between poetry, songs, and what he said." On the one hand he must hear the interlocutor, while on the other hand, she needs to listen to the song lyric as well as enjoy the music itself.

As a result, communication can not take place properly. In addition, if the music is too loud, the sound waves the speaker must also be able to offset the rigors of the music. Be ultimately each other, "cried". When communicating, typically two parties involved are expected to put full concentration during the communication takes place. The consideration, which one sends a single message and capture the contents of news. For that of course is required concentration. "If the music is poetry or the volume too loud, so not until the communication message because concentration is impaired."

Depending on taste
Indeed, continued Monty, music can be therapeutic. That is, can be used as a means of therapy. But do not merely mean being able to unite the troubled couple. Concretely, how is it possible just by listening to the same music people can then become familiar with each other? In fact, "Familiarity, especially the psychic closeness, not determined by the music alone, but by many things. Especially the psychological condition is concerned in giving meaning to the presence of a husband / wife." Another case when the activity of listening to music into a kind of extra activities outside activities to communicate earlier.

For example, a dinner partner, chatting on the slack space than when similar activities conducted in the background of noisy music aka frenetic. In such a comparison, classical music may help to familiarize the relationship. Because the impact posed by none other musical nuances.

While for the most intimate, the husband-wife relationship, the presence of musical accompaniment so is up to the tastes of each couple. "You see, there are like and some are not." There are indeed happy to use music to bring the feel of the atmosphere more romantic. "Conversely, there is also considered distracting their togetherness."

On the other hand, the basic principles of listening to music and intimate relationships more or less similar. Among demanding and requires a high concentration of energy is not small. In other words, not something that nature can take it easy and do as he passed away.

Atmosphere Presents
The presence of music, continued Monty, it is not impossible even considered intrusive. Instead of going to add a beautiful atmosphere, uh, it diverted attention to the music before. "Unless both parties agree and are familiar with the 'ritual' kind of thing."

In addition, Monty too bright, the music should be able to be amusement alias can be enjoyed. So, "All music is played before can be enjoyed by couples who were berintim-intimate, relaxed atmosphere makes them in, why not?"

However, he stressed, need to realize once again, the presence of music only limited impact on the feel of the atmosphere. In a sense, the atmosphere is expected to husband and wife can hopefully be realized with the presence of music. While certainly not always the case.

You see, it is not impossible, right, at the same time a wife was in no mood to cool alias, while her husband just very passionate. A wise husband would not be forced. Instead, why not try other ways such as to set his wife's favorite music? If the wife through music was so memorable in some special memories, is not likely to arise or romantic relaxed atmosphere. Well, in an atmosphere like that is no exaggeration, really, if sexual arousal is expected to appear.

Although, strictly Monty, again far more decisive psychological closeness. "If the husband and wife again anger, even if set to the song as romantic as anything, I doubt that sexual arousal can occur." In other words, jikatengah irritated, do not expect an intimate relationship can be established only by relying on music.

Therefore, he added, "Even if some say the influence of music on such a great sex, probably too biased research. That is, there is already excessive expectations about it." So, music or a particular song just helped form / presents a romantic atmosphere. Only if the romantic atmosphere it will be to unite the individual husband and wife in an intimate relationship, no one can be sure.

Body Elements Bergetarnya
Music, firmly Monty, her even more to the spiritual rather than libidinal / animal boost later though no relationship to each other. "Because the music was originally appeared as the cult of the universe and its creator."

Worship of gods and ancestors through song and dance to ask for rain, for example. Now, through the dance movements that the individual feel the impact of libidinal. "Basically, the music produces sound vibrations. Well, itulahyang vibrate the many elements in the body to evoke a certain passion. Among others, yes, erotic passion that was. It's just a very individual character."

Already Libido High
Dangdut music roots that have not dimordernisasi, Monty clear, perhaps it is intended to arouse sexual desire. It's just a mixture of Indian and Malay influences music is intended for those who had been enjoying alcoholic beverages in roadside stalls in the shadows of the night.

"It may be hanging their libido there is already high, then increasingly driven more by the atmosphere of the dim and high alcoholic beverages. So, not solely because of his music."

If Different Taste
According to Monty, when musical tastes between wives and husbands in contrast, must inevitably be adjusted to each other first. "You can not force myself to mutual complementarity." For example, the wife likes classical music while the husband even more excited when I hear a song dangdut. "Never mind the passion aroused, could-be wife even resentful and eventually even a fuss because they are cranky. Finally, the passion to be extinguished." Then how to bridge it? "Yes, baseball need to use the music only, deh! Simple, right?"

Video sigh VS Passion
Until now, I'm Monty, not yet certain whether there are specific studies on certain music makes one's arousal increases. For example, the song which accompanied the voice sighed. Or the song recorded by the method of subliminal sound waves to exist, but are not captured by the usual sensing. Does that sound waves desibelnya under 20 and can only be captured by the unconscious nature that makes the individual feel any changes without knowing what really happened?

If such a thing happens, the light Monty, "It can not be classified as music. Rather, the vibration stimulus (fibrational stimulation) which then triggers sexual arousal."